reflections
尊重不是别人给你的，是你自己努力赢来的。跌倒了，一定要站起来，站不起来，只能怪你自己无能，不可以怪别人不扶你。记得：任何人都不欠你什么，唯一无条件地帮助我们，就只有自己的爸爸妈妈而已。 just had the urge to say what i've been thinking about for a really long time.
i feel we really should treasure the people and the things around us, especially since some things don't last forever. for all you know, someone you know may just leave you for a very long time and you never know when you would meet that person again (if you're lucky enough to meet him again). honestly, regretting over things that you should have done will just make you feel sad and affect you badly. so, don't take things for granted.
it's quite sad, actually, that at times people dont appreciate those around them, then when they leave them or lose them, they get very sad and said they should have done this done that. i guess it takes one or two of such experiences to get a better understanding of this. once bitten twice shy yea.
it may be just me, but i cant really understand some others too. i'm really not in the position to preach good values to others, but i have to say that the world does not revolve around us individuals. each and every one of us is important in this world, no matter who we are. it's alright if people are just shy or slightly reserved, but those who do not care a single bit about others and live in their own individual worlds should really change their thinking.. it's not just about being aware of current affairs; relationships are important too. like, you cant exist alone or within your own click forever right? we should be more open-minded, and always anticipate change around us.
after all, it's not always about 'me' all the time.
in this world full of uncertainty, the only constant is change. -- Goh L.Z.
i agree. 金无足赤、人无完人; every single one of us makes mistakes now and then. those who know only how to whine when they are in a difficult situation should instead think abt how they can help themselves. why do we fall? so that we can learn to pick ourselves up. easy to say, but hard to do, but i still think we should try our best. as if complaining so much will help us in any way. 人非圣贤，孰能无过，过而能改，善莫大焉。you also dont have to go through this alone. that's what friends are for, right?
